He first married Elizabeth Gilpin Stabler, and in February 1830, married Sarah Bentley Briggs (1801-1886) of Alexandria, Virginia, a daughter of surveyor (and friend to Thomas Jefferson) Isaac Briggs.[2]
Late in the year, he fell ill, perhaps with tuberculosis; he returned to work in January 1837.[2]
Later that year, Stabler purchased the house and grounds of his father-in-law, Isaac Briggs, for $1,000. (Named "Sharon," the estate remained in the family until 1911. Today, it is part of a convalescent and retirement home at 18201 Marden Lane in Olney, Maryland.[7])
He had at least one daughter, born in 1837, and two sons, including Pleasants Stabler and James P. Stabler, Jr. (1860–1901).[2]
The W&S "dispensed with his services" on October 31, 1837. He was at the time attempting to cultivate silkworms for commercial silk production.[2]
A finding aid for Stabler's family papers says he and his father-in-law Isaac Briggs were "men of education and attainment but good fortune did not seem to attend their best endeavors, though in their family connections were persons of wealth with whom they appear to have been on a basis of entire social equality. The whole family connection was fervent in its faith in the Quaker doctrine."[2]
By 1838, he had returned to his home in Sandy Spring. He died there and was buried by Sandy Spring Friends Meeting House in 1840, aged 43.[8]
Notes
^ abWilbur, Henry Watson (1910). The Life and Labors of Elias Hicks. Philadelphia: Friends' General Conference Advancement Committee. pp. 242. railroad James P. Stabler.
^"1835 (June 2004 Edition)"(PDF). PRR CHRONOLOGY. The Pennsylvania Railroad Technical & Historical Society. June 2004. Archived(PDF) from the original on 12 October 2013. Retrieved 23 July 2013.
^"ACHS Summary Form"(PDF). Maryland State Archives. Maryland Historical Trust. 1993. Archived(PDF) from the original on March 3, 2014. Retrieved March 3, 2014.
^"James P. Stabler". Maryland Obituaries. Baltimore Sun (Baltimore) via Nancy and Scott Sheads. February 18, 1840. Archived from the original on March 8, 2014. Retrieved February 27, 2014.