《赫芬顿邮报》采访到的治疗师保拉·霍尔(Paula Hall)曾被询问如何看待NoFap宣称“[戒除自慰和色情]的健康益处包括精力变得更加充沛、更强的注意力和更好的睡眠质量”并回应称“目前几乎没有医学证据能证明他们说的这些益处”[7]。《赫芬顿邮报》采访的另一位治疗师罗伯特·韦斯直接认为NoFap是技术倒退的一部分[44]。NoFap成员的努力亦被批评会产生令人尴尬的副作用,如男性长时间的勃起或性欲过剩[45]。心理学家大卫·莱伊(英语:David J. Ley)在文章中写道:“我无意站在他们的对立面,但我确实认为他们的理念经不起推敲、十分幼稚,促进了悲观的还原论并扭曲了男性性爱和男性气质[8];”莱伊批评NoFap支持者的水平十分业余,使用“坏数据”和经不起推敲的类科学推论认定色情对大脑的损伤更大,并且宣称色情会造成勃起功能障碍[8]。莱伊认为,NoFap网站是历史上的反自慰运动的延续,例如18世纪的瑞士医生萨缪尔·蒂索也曾宣称自慰是一种病,会“弱化男性的精神”并引起不道德的行为;美国医生本杰明·拉什(英语:Benjamin Rush)也曾认为自慰会致盲;威尔·基思·凯洛格(英语:W.K. Kellogg)则开发了玉米片来反自慰[8]。
一份2020年的研究显示,尽管NoFap宣称他们的网站基于科学,但NoFap成员越远离色情,就往往越不信任科学[5]。社会心理学家泰勒(Taylor)和杰克逊(Jackson)分析了NoFap网站的内容后认为,一些NoFap成员不只是拒绝色情,更在拒绝女权对色情的批评。这两位心理学家进一步指出,NoFap的成员经常利用和输出男性霸权社会体系(例如,男性是享乐的主要寻求者,而女性则是这种享乐的自然提供者),这进一步加剧了他们对性虐恋(sexual dominance and submission)的期望[46]。一篇2020年发表于《社会力量(英语:Social Forces)》的对媒体上的色情内容的系统性回顾的论文认为“报纸上的理论不一定来自科学家,我们进一步发现许多理论来自于并非相关行业的专业人士”,论文作者提到,“罗兹被不断引用,媒体不断地报道他‘曾沉迷于互联网色情’以及他的个人经历。”作者最终得到结论“记者和政治家正在滥用科学发现,以推进其媒体知名度和政治前途……这最终导致性别刻板印象的加深以及异性恋的增加”[47]。
2017年,《獨立報》上的一份文章“Inside the Community of Men Who Have Given Up Porn”指出了另外几个与NoFap类似的Reddit子板,如/r/pornfree,pornfree子板的成员大都认为应戒除色情,但不必戒除自慰[59]。2018年,《独立报》的另一期文章认为pornfree是“没那么极端”的NoFap[60]。
^原文为:the NoFap community has become linked to wider sexism and misogyny, reducing women to sexual objects to be attained or abstained from and shaming sexually active women.
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^McMahon, Tamsin. Will quitting porn improve your life?: A growing 'NoFap' movement of young men are saying no to porn and masturbation. 麦克林 (Toronto, Canada: Rogers Media). 2014-01-20 [2015-05-22]. (原始内容存档于2015-05-02). 尽管有福音派的口号,NoFap与传统运动从根本上不同在于:传统的运动将自慰视为对宗教价值观的侵犯,而NoFap则正在发展成一种受年轻人欢迎的世俗运动,该社区中的许多人被认为是自由主义者和无神论者。匹兹堡23岁的网站开发员亚历山大·罗兹,NoFap网站的创立者认为NoFap的主要成员是20多岁的少年男性,不过网站中亦有女性。他分析认为大概60%的网站成员是无神论者,还拥有许多基督徒和一些穆斯林。这些成员普遍认为色情是有害的。(Despite the evangelical tone, NoFap is fundamentally different from traditional campaigns that view masturbation as an assault on religious values. Instead, it is developing as a secular movement popular among young men, many of whom identify as liberal and atheist. The majority of NoFap members are men in their teens and early 20s, though there are women, too, says Alexander Rhodes, the 23-year-old web developer from Pittsburgh who founded the movement two years ago. He estimates about 60 per cent are atheists; the site is also home to a fair number of Christians and some Muslims, all in broad agreement that porn is harmful.)
^Imhoff, Roland; Zimmer, Felix. Men's Reasons to Abstain from Masturbation May Not Reflect the Conviction of "reboot" Websites. Archives of Sexual Behavior. 2020-04-30. ISSN 0004-0002. PMID 32356083. doi:10.1007/s10508-020-01722-x(英语). 我们最近发表了一篇论文,题为“Abstinence from Masturbation and Hypersexuality”(Zimmer & Imhoff, 2020),在这篇论文中我们探讨了人们戒除自慰的原因,为了进行进一步的研究,我们指出了有关该主题的现有论述,并引用了这场论辩中不同主角的理论(如“NoFap.org”和“rebootnation.org”的观点)。(We recently published a paper titled "Abstinence from Masturbation and Hypersexuality" (Zimmer & Imhoff, 2020) in which we tried to explore correlates of men's motivation to stay abstinent from masturbation. In motivating the study, we pointed to existing discourses around the topic and cited different protagonists within this debate (e.g., the Web sites "nofap.org" and "rebootnation.org").)
^ 5.05.15.25.35.4Zimmer, F.; Imhoff, R. Abstinence from Masturbation and Hypersexuality(PDF). Archives of Sexual Behavior. 2020-03-04, 49 (4): 1333–1343 [2020-06-13]. PMC 7145784. PMID 32130561. doi:10.1007/s10508-019-01623-8. (原始内容存档(PDF)于2020-05-20). 从零阶偏听偏相关系数和多元线性回归可以看出,禁欲的动机主要与态度相关,特别是对自慰的否定态度。尽管禁欲与性欲亢进有关联,但未发现与性行为的标记(如最大性高潮次数)显着相关。较高的节欲动机与自慰,保守主义和宗教信仰过高的感知影响以及对科学的信任度较低有关。我们认为,关于禁欲的研究可以丰富对是否以及如何进行健康自慰的平均频率的理解。(As visible from zero-order correlations and multiple linear regression, motivation for abstinence was mostly associated with attitudinal correlates, specifically the perception of masturbation as unhealthy. While there were associations with hypersexuality, no significant correlation with behavioral markers such as maximum number of orgasms was found. Higher abstinence motivation was related to a higher perceived impact of masturbation, conservatism, and religiosity and to lower trust in science. We argue that research on abstinence from masturbation can enrich the understanding of whether and how average frequencies of healthy behavior are pathologized.)
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